Groom And Brides Speech Tips

February 5th, 2010
 When the big wedding day comes, sometimes it becomes necessary that groom and the brides speech should be considered together and both of you have to make a decision about it. A bride’s speech always comes after the groom have finished his.
For me and my husband, we didn’t write our respective wedding speech together cause it might spoil the element of surprise. But we had a mutual discussion and made sure to figure out the direction we wanted our wedding speeches to head. The reason why we had the discussion was that i wanted to make sure who is going to thank who cause it becomes awkward and gawky if a same particular person is thanked twice and it might also happen that some might be not thanked at all and will result in upsetting the person. And we also want to make sure that our speech are not repeating the other. There is possibility that both of you might have the same idea,such as telling some funny stories that had happened between both of you,the day you both met, etc.
Covering different topics is helpful as it completely reduces the risk of repeated speech. If however both of you wanted to make the same story then i suggest both of you should do it from a different point of view.This will in fact make it more exciting and humorous and your guest will love it.
As far as the thanking ritual is concerned, we decided that my husband will thank the best man and the page boys, and I decided to thank the maid of honor and brides maids. As for the other i suggest that both of you can mutually decide who to thank the service personnel, the florists ,caterers,wedding planner, etc. On the other hand both you and your husband should thank both sets of parents.

Speaking in front of your guests can be a very challenging tasks and on top of that i am a very shy person. But even worse is writting the oration as there is so many things happening around you and its very chaotic during the pre wedding preparation. Starring at a blank writting paper for hours is not what everyone wants during this time. I tried to browse the Internet for ideas but most of them have low and inferior qualities that the guests have heard so many times before. I don’t want my guests to start fidgeting in their chairs and whispering amongst themselves when i am making my oration. Finally i found a solution my friend recommended. Since we all get married only once i thought its worth having a look at what my friend suggested. Do you know what happened ? Well… i made a brides speech that stunned everyone and people really loved it.My husband still talks about it.Click on the linke below to find out what my friend suggested.

7 Responses to “Groom And Brides Speech Tips”

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  4. Matt from Concert Tshirts says:

    nice post, i think these can be difficult for some fiancees. it can be hard to come up with the perfect speech.

  5. My wife did such an amazing speech. We also wrote ours separately. Everyone was so emotional when they heard it.

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